It seems impossible and yet it’s true.
50 was about proving I surely wasn’t.
60 is about loving the years.
So, hello, sixty, I’m happy to be here.
Aging is an extraordinary process where you become the person you always should have been.
This is sixty.
60 is more freedom than I’ve ever had. Really. It’s awesome.
60 is not just feeling the same but feeling better than I have in years.
60 is thinner skin–actually not metaphorically.
60 is loving my new MacBook Pro with touchbar a little too much.
60 is not yet having used age as a reason I can’t do something.
60 is wanting to do just as many things as I wanted to do at 15.
60 is wondering why, still, I’m preoccupied with freedom.
60 is starting to think hashtag before pound.
60 is having lived 21,900 days. Which doesn’t seem like so many. If anyone had asked me I would have guessed a person lived hundreds of thousands of days. But then math is not my strong suit.
60 is my own small house in Provincetown, Massachusetts, on the very tip of Cape Cod, as far as you can go without falling into the sea.
60 is wearing peace sign earrings and a nevertheless she resisted bracelet.
60 is having not as many days as I have lived still to live.
60 is googling life expectancy. Did you know the longer you live the more years they give you?
60 is 4 adult children—all off on their own—plus a son-in-law and a daughter-in-law, and girlfriends. And liking them ALL.
60 is four grandchildren. But we are not your mothers’ grandmothers; we are grandmothers who facetime from airplanes.
60 is, as Cal says, one day older than I was yesterday.
60 is walking in the women’s march.
60 is finally liking yoga.
60 is liking socks.
60 is contributing to the ACLU on a monthly basis.
60 is taking 3 prescriptions–for blood pressure, for eyes, and for hypothyroidism.
60 is still loving to travel–all the movement and that moment the wheels lift off the ground.
60 is strength training twice a week.
60 is feeling happy.
60 is resisting.
60 is still wanting adventure.
60 is almost never wearing makeup.
60 is finally, finally finding clothes that are comfortable, that look good on me, and that look like me–black leggings, a short little black skirt, a long top, and these kick-ass black ankle boots. That is, when I wear something other than black exercise pants.
60 is more adverbs.
60 is 32 years of marriage and still liking each other. He still makes me laugh.
60 is being born in 1957, the same year as Caroline Kennedy and Princess Caroline of Monaco.
60 is remembering each of the years and understanding that they add up to 60, that they add up to me.
60 is listening to my body instead of telling my body what to do. It’s resting instead of pushing. It’s eating more vegetables, doing qigong energy movements, and having my body say finally. It’s being amazed as, after a year of trying, the weight just falls off.
60 is listening to Sarah Jaffe’s Clementine, The Killer’s Human, the Branches Darlin’, and Roo Panes’ I Was Here…
60 is preparing to do one last revision on novel #4.
60 is knowing the correct form is to put the names of songs in quotes but liking the way they look in italics better.
60 is adding coconut oil, cinnamon, and turmeric to my coffee.
60 is using the word still a lot.
60 is 6 decades on this planet.
60 is gratitude for each of those days in each of those years.
60 is not yet 70 or 80 or 90. It’s not yet 100.
60 is spending a month in my small house on the water.
60 is being excited about the year ahead and the rest of the journey.
She sees that she has before her an important task: to understand that all the things that happened in her life happened to her. That she is the same person who was born, was a child, a girl, a young woman, and now she is old. That there is some line running through her body like a wick.
–Mary Gordon, The Rest of Life
THIS IS 60