jobs: 10/365

IMG_1497One summer I ran the tennis courts at my high school. In college I worked as a waitress at a sandwich shop. The summer after I graduated I worked as a receptionist at my father’s company. The year after I graduated I was the first female Assistant to the President of Davidson College. I was an attorney in a large firm then in a small firm. I tutored kids in French and one summer, ran a little French camp.

I’ve been looking at these sentences for a while now. These are the only paying jobs I ever held. In and of themselves, I don’t think they say a thing about me.

That was not intentional.


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23 thoughts on “jobs: 10/365

  1. In and of themselves, they say — at a minimum — that you were able to become an associate in a large law firm, which is not so easy for the majority of law school graduates, and that you’re not monolingual, as are most Americans (unless ethnically Hispanic). (Why do I seem always to be playing the Devil’s Advocate on Catching Days?) There’s also the implication that you chose/were able to choose full-time motherhood over law. I think that’s quite a lot for one paragraph. Last sentence is lovely, though! 🙂


    • Nina, yes, all those things are true–I did well in law school, loved the French language starting at five years old, and chose to stay home with the kids when I was pregnant with #3–I just could not do it all. Yet when I was writing the post this morning, I saw nothing there. I will come back to these truths, I imagine. Thank you for seeing : )

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  2. It says to me that you believe there is more to you than the positions you have held. For too many people, the title and job is their identity. I find that to be quite sad.

    I believe that how we make a living matters little. How we treat others and every facet of the world around us should be our identity.


    • Mary, that’s true. I do believe there’s more to me than those jobs, but I wonder if that’s because I’ve taken a 180 degree turn from where I started out. If I were paid to be a writer, that would matter. Still I know what you mean.

      Nina also makes a good point because having been an attorney is a truth about me. I think I was trying to pull some universal truth from those jobs. Thinking more about it, my love of French, my legal career (trusts and estates), and writing all show my love of language.

      Some people do manage to get paid for doing something they love–a lot of teachers and writers. And so right, how we treat others really does say a lot about us. Thanks so much for weighing in here and helping me to think more about this.


  3. Well, what is shows is that you’ve gained a wide variety of experience through the jobs you’ve held, but it does show things about you:

    –you were physically active
    –you have a good memory
    –you’re good with people
    –you’re organized and competent
    –and you’re smart 🙂


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  5. As others have pointed out, that list says quite a lot about you. But I think (?) I know what you mean, because I could do the same with my own list of jobs. Of course each one says something about me. But you could never guess the things that matter to me most by looking at that list. What makes your heart beat too fast? What bores you senseless? Surely you detest someone beyond reason–why THAT person? What is the surest way to make you cry, what can you never forgive, why do you make THAT joke in THAT moment? Your avocation, your calling–that captures something essential about YOU, and at least provides hints to the answers to those questions. Jobs? Meh.


  6. my dad was a gastroenterologist for four and a half decades. He was esteemed, and I believe he was proud. But after he retired, when I expressed surprise at no longer seeing New England Journals of Medicine in his house, he said, “I wouldn’t read another one of those if you paid me a million dollars.” Instead he carved beautiful animals out of wood and stone.


    • Abby, I’ve always thought carving was such a beautiful art. Your story about your father fascinates me not because of what he said about the journal, but because I witnessed a similar situation with my father who was one of the leaders in computer software back when computers took up entire rooms. After he retired, I offered to get him set up with a personal computer, but he had no interest at all. I had thought he loved working with computers as I imagine you thought your father loved medicine. So much to think about here–it would make a wonderful essay…

      It’s nice to see you here.


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