Comments on: what have i done with my life

By: cynthia

cynthia — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 02:13:57 +0000

Lovely rituals, dkzody. And you’re lucky to have journals to look back on. I don’t because for some reason I always had this fear of committing my thoughts to paper.

Your phrase “catch a glimpse of the girl I was” reminded me of two other posts that you might be interested in: http://catchingdays.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2008/09/27/like-a-wick/ AND http://catchingdays.cynthianewberrymartin.com/2008/10/14/all-one-thing/

Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment. I hope you’ll be back.

By: dkzody

dkzody — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 03:24:32 +0000

Interesting thoughts, indeed. I have three weeks away from school, and at this time of the year I begin to seriously reflect on where I have been and where I am going. I read old journals to catch a glimpse of the girl I was. I ponder who I want to be and attempt to capture her on paper so that I can check, in time to come, to see if I’ve had success.

By: cynthia

cynthia — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 18:40:18 +0000

Sarah, it’s interesting how moments in the year or seasons have rhythms for an individual. This seems to be a creative time of the year for you, whereas for me, it’s more reflective, a time of finishing rather than beginning things. Still, so many coincidences between us!

By: Sarah Laurence

Sarah Laurence — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 01:49:11 +0000

Interesting observation on reflection as the year is almost over. Mrs. Dalloway made me aware of how a woman’s life can be so much more fulfilling these days, although Virginia Woolf herself would have been an exception for her time.

I had a similar déjà vu moment as I started work on a new novel on December 11th of this year. Checking my blog archives, I learned that I’d gotten the idea for my last novel after going to bed on December 11th, 2008. Back then I was reading Shapiro’s Black & White. So many coincidences!

By: cynthia

cynthia — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 23:40:36 +0000

Emily, nice to see you here. Speaking of time, I need to make time to visit your blog. I’ve been missing your GREAT reviews.

I do love that quote from Mrs. Dalloway and as you mentioned, so many more.

By: cynthia

cynthia — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 23:38:25 +0000

Yes, good point, Chuck. I just need to carve out the time for what’s important. I think I need a priority list. Have fun with your photos and thanks for the movie recommendation. I can’t wait to see it.

By: cynthia

cynthia — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 23:31:24 +0000

And there never seems to be enough of it for what I try to squeeze into the day. Just a minute ago I noticed how dark it was at 5:00 and now it’s 6:30. Late birthday wishes to your mother, Darrelyn.

By: Emily

Emily — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 23:39:10 +0000

That passage from Mrs. Dalloway is one of my favorites as well (although, how to narrow it down? That whole book is so incredible). Lovely little contemplation here, Cynthia – thanks for the post.

By: Chuck

Chuck — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 12:42:13 +0000

A dangerous, thought-provoking question indeed. You’ve gpt a tower of paper behind you; I’m surrounded by boxes of photos, looking for some old snapshots to scan for Christmas presents for siblings. As you quoted Annie Dillard before, “how we spend our days, is of course, how we spend our lives.”

Anyone who hasn’t seen the Albert Brooks & Meryl Streep flick “Defending Your Life” probably should, just to make sure they’re ready for Judgment Day. Tagline: “The first true story of what happens after you die.”

By: Darrelyn Saloom

Darrelyn Saloom — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 01:20:23 +0000

I spent the day with my mom who turned 83 today. And she asked me the same thing,” But where’s the time?” I had no answer. But I do know that as I get older, it moves faster and faster.